Your personnel cannot gain skills while facing this dilemma. Unless you have Anthropology, Biology, and Law or Diplomacy, Leadership, and Security, randomly select a personnel to be stopped and if this dilemma's owner discards a Capture card or a Punishment card from hand, then that personnel is placed in your opponent's brig instead.
"Oh, poor Odo. Perhaps we should have killed you."
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